by Dana George | Updated July 17, 2021 - First published on Nov. 13, 2019
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There's an expectation that we will all overspend this holiday season, but you don't have to. Here's how to enjoy the festivities without going into debt.
As the holiday season approaches, we're divided into two camps. There are those who love the holidays and embrace the "go big or go home" philosophy, and others for whom the holidays are simply something to be endured.
The "go big or go home" camp are often willing to go into debt in an attempt to create something memorable. But money worries are a big source of stress for the other camp too. While some may grieve the loss of a loved one or yearn for happier times, others feel stressed just thinking about how much they need to accomplish or spend.
Many of us wonder how we're going to pay for the festivities without racking up debt (or more debt). And it's tough to imagine how our holiday might match up with those we see on television -- particularly when the budget is tight.
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Consumers who took on holiday debt in 2018 ended up owing an average of $1,230. Of that debt, 68% was financed via credit cards, and 14% by personal loans.
And 62% of those who went into debt said they felt stressed about doing so, which makes sense. If the interest rate on that debt is 16% and the borrower pays $100 each month, it will take 14 months to pay the $1,230 off. Another holiday season will come and go before the debt from the previous season is paid.
Moreover, the stress is really bad for us. Research has shown an increase in heart attacks around the holidays, and while these heart attacks can't be tied to any one cause, stress is thought to play a role.
One of the best ways to reduce holiday stress is to throw out the rule book. There's nothing that says we have to do things the way we've always done, or that our holidays should look like something out of a movie.
If you're on a tight budget or simply want to find a simpler way to celebrate, there are plenty of ways to make it happen. Sometimes making new traditions is a fun and enjoyable way to reduce both emotional and financial pressures.
Here are some practical ways to get through the holidays without taking on debt or becoming the Christmas Grinch. You might even have something left in the bank come January.
Think back to your childhood. How many specific gifts do you remember receiving? Of those, how many do you still have because they were so precious to you? The gifts we give others often have a short shelf life. They're used for a while, then either wear out or are given away.
If you've ever watched a grandparent's face as they recall that "wonderful" holiday, even though they had little money for gifts, you may be struck with how consumer-orientated today's holidays have become. But aren't we all aiming for a sense of joy that has nothing to do with the trinkets we give and receive? Joy is derived from relationships. Here are some things you can do to recalibrate the focus of this holiday season:
The health and emotional benefits of giving are numerous and bound to help you and yours focus on what's important.
You undoubtedly have a lot going on this upcoming holiday season. Remember to take time for yourself, even if it just means making a phone call to a close friend or sitting down with a good book. It's only chaotic if you allow it to be. The best part of being an adult is having the ability to rewrite the rules when the old ones no longer make sense.
Come 2020, you'll likely look back with pride on this holiday season, knowing that you saved both your sanity and your budget.
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